To The Next School Shooter: If You Do It, You Will Never Do This Again
- Go out to eat.
- Hang out with friends.
- Have a girlfriend, wife, and children.
- Choose a career, who to spend your life with, and where to live.
- Travel.
- Go shopping.
- Have fun with hobbies.
- Enjoy holidays with family & friends.
- Have a pet.
- Kiss, hold hands, snuggle, fall in love, make love.
- Make plans, change ‘em, do what you want to do.
- Go for a drive, to the beach, a game, or out for a movie.
- Go fishing, camping, boating, snowmobiling, biking, hiking, or skiing.
- Have fond memories.
- Revel in the latest technology.
- Choose what clothes to wear.
- Enjoy silence and solitude.
- Look forward to your vacation.
- Impress a woman.
- Have a chance to develop into a better person.
- Make your family, friends, and children proud.
PULLING THE TRIGGER IS LIKE FLUSHING YOUR LIFE DOWN THE DRAIN. BE SMART: THINK OF A BETTER WAY TO VENT YOUR FRUSTRATION. CAN'T THINK OF IT? LOTS OF PEOPLE ARE WILLING TO LISTEN AND HELP
This is available as a poster in PDF and GIF formats.
COMMENT: Four days after posting that on LinkedIn, it received 553 views, 3 likes (< 1%), and 2 comments yet gorgeous women with transparently flimsy excuses for posting pictures of themselves can get tens of thousands of likes.
After most school and other shootings, people bring flowers, spout platitudes, and profess to care—but do they really? They seem to care more about stroking the egos of narcissistic young beauties than doing something to deter the next shooter. I've heard “we must do something!” umpteen times yet can't recall the last viable solution proposed.
I have a folder full of other ideas on ways to prevent and stop shooters, prevent rape (posted an article on that long ago), and stop physical bullying.
Prediction: venture capitalists will continue to ignore innovation solving real-world problems until one of their loved ones is victimized.
Something for thinkers to think about
Why has revenge persisted for millions of years? Why is behavior akin to it seen in some animals? Because behavior is shaped not on the basis of what is right and wrong, but what is most adaptive. In evolutionary terms, it is adaptive for others to know that if you screw with them or their loved ones, you will pay a price for it.
Until recently (in the evolutionary timescale), we didn't have courts to adjudicate disputes, we had angry fathers literally bashing in the skulls of men who raped their wives and daughters, which made would-be rapists think twice.
While we are wired for revenge, we are also wired to think of ourselves, doing what is best for us. That is the impetus for the above message to would-be shooters: instilling the idea that NOT shooting is in their best interests long-term. Long after the brief flash of satisfaction from revenge, they face decades of living a life much more miserable than it could have been.
Yes, I know: temporal discounting (a.k.a., discounting the future) makes most people place more value on smaller rewards now versus bigger ones in the future, so my poster clearly won't deter everyone thinking of shooting, bombing, or whatever. But its batting average will not be zero; if seen by enough people, eventually it will change someone's mind so he thinks of what is best for him in the future, thus it will save lives.
“The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposed ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function.”
— F. Scott Fitzgerald
Reference: Imagining dialogue can boost critical thinking: Excerpt: “Examining an issue as a debate or dialogue between two sides helps people apply deeper, more sophisticated reasoning …”